Thursday, 27 December 2012

Kill the Rapist Mentality.... not the Rapists!!!

I’d been avoiding reading anything on it, following the news or discussing it with anyone. Not because I’m indifferent but because I feel deeply involved, saddened and pained every time I hear of any such unfortunate, horrible incident. But this doing the rounds nowadays caught up with me, I couldn’t help but learn in detail about what happened. And once again, I cried my heart out. I could feel her plight more deeply as I’m also a woman. The fact is that such horrible afflictions on women have occurred in the past and will continue to occur in the future in our uncivilized and brutal society that doesn’t even deserve to be called a society anymore. I refuse to call it a society, we live in a herd of beasts today, it isn’t a society.

A lot is being said about what happened or rather was done to the innocent girl. The crux of the matter  is that She suffered while those beasts satisfied their sick, sinful, brutal lust. No amount of discussions or protests can relieve her of her predicament. There’s pain, there’s anger, there’s anguish, there’s humiliation, there’s fear, there’s shock and a lot more that can’t be put into words. No amount of protests in her support and against those beastly perpetrators can alleviate her pain. The mental trauma is bound to hound and haunt her all her life.

On one side is the girl who had just one fault in the whole accident, that of being a woman in today’s world plagued by sick ghastly animals called “Rapists”. And on the other, there are those beasts in the form of human beings who in the heat of the moment, committed an unforgivable sin, a sin they themselves will be ashamed of in the heart of their hearts.

They’re talking about what punishment should be dealt out to the barbaric criminals. ‘Life Imprisonment’….’Death Sentence’….’Bobbitization’…or ‘Chemical Castration’…?? What would serve them right? What would apparently give her a relief or justice (so to say) ?

This isn’t the first or the last time it’s happened or happening…

Does setting a deterrent really help?

Does a just punishment, no matter how severe, really guarantee that no such thing would take place ever again in future???

Why are we just blabbering about what should be a fitting punishment for the sinners?

Why are we not looking at a more serious issue?? THE ROOT CAUSE!

Why are we not focusing on ‘Why-it-happens-again and again’ rather than thinking about ‘How-to-deal-with-it-now’?

Why do men lust women in general to the extent of wanting to rape them????

Why are they not able to tame their sick desires…????

Why do they think of women as a mere sex object???

Why do they have such a wrong sense of power in their minds??

We have police, politicians, activists, and a whole lot of other airheads today who preach women to dress appropriately in order to not attract lewd male attention. Isn’t that absolute BULLSHIT???????

Do women want to get raped???? Do they like to get raped???  If you’re a woman…tell me.. would you like that to happen to you??? Ask your sisters, mothers, daughters and friends… would they like that…????

No. We women don’t like to be ogled at or raped. So please don’t give us that SHIT about dressing!

I wonder… Why do people not preach men not to rape women rather than doing the reverse????
Doesn’t it make more sense to teach men to think of women as normal human beings like themselves, who also have dreams, desires, ambitions and feelings of their own…..???

Who deserve to live freely with respect, care, security and freedom.

Hold campaigns to teach men this!

Invite men/boys of all age groups… irrespective of financial/social background, education and literacy.
Talk to them…. Educate them! Tell them about the dire consequences of this ghastly, beastly act on the mind and body of the victim of rape. Tell them in detail what a rape entails in the life of a woman….in terms of physical, mental and emotional repercussions/trauma. THAT would be the real deterrent. That would make a man shudder at the mere thought of raping a woman.

Teach your sons, brothers, friends…or strangers for that matter, let them think about it deeply. At least some will understand. God has given them a mind to think and a heart to feel too.
If a man can be wise enough to understand that he can’t think about his own mother or sister that way…he can surely develop that sensitivity for other women as well…

Men need to understand that their power lies in being chivalrous..… in respecting and protecting women not in raping them.
There is no manhood in a man who rapes or even thinks of raping a woman or girl. It takes a lot more than just a ‘D***’ to be a real man.

Men need to be taught this. They need Guidance…. Education….Counseling … not death sentence….

By leading them to the gallows you only kill them….not their sick mentality. it’s the sick mentality that needs to be killed…. For that is what drives the body to commit such sins. Death sentence will only kill the body but The real Menace….the ‘Sick Mentality’ still stays alive…very much in the air like a virus!

There’s no punishment bigger and more severe than the feeling of guilt. Let the perpetrators realize the seriousness of what they have done. Expose them to her sufferings…. Force them to watch how their victims suffer all their lives after they have had their way with them…. Nothing would be a more painful killing than the pangs of Guilt…. They’ll be killed every day….and that would be the Real Punishment!

And then I have a piece of advice for our ladies too. Men are not the only beings who have a wrong thinking in their heads, we women too have been brought up with a wrong notion that we are weaker than men. Because this idea has been instilled in our minds right from our childhood we have come to accept it. Not only do we accept it, but also pass it onto our younger ones. This makes us our own culprit.

We are not weak, never have been, never will be. If we can have the strength to put up with all the physical, mental and emotional pain destined for us, we can also guard our own selves damn well!

When life is at risk…even a mouse fights it out. We are all born with innate animal instincts, so put them to some good use. Fight it out! Fight tooth and nail. You can do some real damage too. At least don’t let the Mother F****** go back home in one piece. Be strong because you are made far more strong than men. So be brave and be your own guard! Be fearless, alert and safe!

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